THE DNA OF MANHOOD!

Men are driven by who they are, what they do, and how much they make.
No matter if a man is a CEO, a CON or both, everything he does is filtered through his title
(who he is), how he gets that title(what he does), and the reward he gets for the effort(how much he makes). These three things make up the basic DNA of manhood-the three accomplishments every man must achieve before he feels like hes truly fulfilled his destiny as a man. And until hes achieved his goal in those three areas, the man you are dating, committed to, or married to will be too busy to FOCUS on you.

And if these are on his mind, and he hasnt lined up the who he is, the what he does, and how much he makes in the way that he sees fit, he cant  possibly be to you what he wants to be. Which means that you cant really have the man you want. He cant sit around talking with you, or dream about marriage and family, if his mind is on how to make money, how to get a better position, how to be the kind of man he needs to be for you.

However nothing on this earth can compare with a womans love-it is kind and compassionate, patient and nuturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. pure.
If you are her man, she will talk to you until there arent any more words left to say, encourage you when you are at rock bottom and think there just isnt any way out, hold you in her arms when you are sick, and laugh with you when you are up. And if you are her man and that woman loves you-I mean really loves you? she will shine you up when you are dusty, encourage you when you are down, defend you even when shes not sure you were right, and hang on your every word,even when your not saying anything worth listening to. And no matter what you do, no matter how many times her friends tell her you are no good, no matter how many times you slam the door on the relaionship, she will give you her very best and then some, and keep right on trying to win over your heart, even when you act like everything shes done to convince you shes "THE ONE", just isnt good enough.
Thats a womans love -it stands the test of time, logic and all circumstance.

Excerpt from; Act Like A Lady! Think Like A Man--Steve Harvey